books, life

Boarding School Stories

I went to state school, church school at that, but remain as obsessed with boarding school stories now as I was at 13 when I desperately wanted to be sent away to school as I was so unhappy where I was.

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Malory Towers, the Chalet School, St Clare’s, these schools were what I dreamed of. Now I know that life is not all midnight feasts and hockey matches (or hiding from Nazis in the Alps).

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But the magic of boarding school stories continues, and I am loving Robin Stevens’ Wells & Wong Mystery series, there are three books so far, inspired by Agatha Christie’s fantastic stories (I adore Monsieur Poirot).

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These are aimed at the Young Adult market but since I dont believe there should be a cut off point for reading great books, I don’t care. The brightly coloured spines are smiling at me from the bookcase.

Daisy Wells and Hazel Wong are thirteen year old boarding school girls. Daisy from a posh English family and Hazel the daughter of a successful Hong Kong businessman. They are the founding members of the Detective Society, the Holmes and Watson of the bun break and prep set.

The books are funny, clever, well written,  I haven’t yet guessed the identities of who dunnit? which is always a plus in a murder mystery.

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Perhaps the best boarding school ever - St Trinian's created by Ronald Searle

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beauty, beauty boxes, birchbox, make up, reviews

August Birchbox #beautyjunkie

This month Birchbox have decided to cover their boxes with emojis and yes that’s so 2014!

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Inside is a sheet of emoji stickers, which would be great if I was still 12, I hope this isn’t this month’s fake tattoo trend.

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Inside is 6 beauty samples. All of them are really diddy. 

Formula 10.0.6 Over Night Success Spot Minimizing Patches – 21 single use patches to shrink and fight off spots. Not sure how well it will work on the monthly ‘guess what time of the month it is?’ lumps I get, especially as it’s formulated for young skin and mine is getting older!

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Rituals Fortune Scrub – sweet orange and cedar scented, although to me it smells like hubba bubba.

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Kebelo Clarifying Shampoo – now I am fussy about my shampoo – it’s taken a while to find one I like, so I don’t chop and change. I never quite see the point of shampoo samples as everyone’s hair is different.

Lord & Berry Blush in Lotus – this is a teeny sample – it would have been nice to have at least one full size product.

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Huygens Face Scrub – French brand, tiny pot of face scrub, it says to use a coin-sized amount, so that’s the whole tub then!

TheBalm@ cosmetics – desert bronzer – I don’t think I have an applicator small enough.

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I found this box disappointing – so many wasted opportunities for a really nice selection and the lack of full size items is frustrating as they usually include at least one. Last month’s was so good, shame the quality slipped.

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beauty, beauty boxes, reviews

You Beauty Discovery – August

Wow is this box disappointing.

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These boxes are never as packed as others on the market but this month’s is especially underwhelming.

The two items I picked from their shortlist were Model Co blusher in Just Peachy and Inika Mineral Bronzer. The other options were nude nail polish, and an endless array of serums for skin or hair.

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The ‘included in every box’ items are pretty poor. A sachet of SiennaX gradual self tan and a chapter sampler of Cassandra Clare’s City of Bones.

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The box is smaller than previous ones, perhaps an attempt to hide how poor it is. Hopefully next month will be better – a more varied list to choose from and better samples for all.

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P.S ignore the messy living room in the background, I couldn’t take pictures where I normally do.

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ethics, life

Social justice in an unjust world

#blacklivesmatter

#transisbeautiful

#notallmuslims

What do those three hash tags have in common? They are the voice of the oppressed, the mistreated and derided. They are voices calling into the wilderness of ignorance and trying to show that human beings in all that varied forms are more than labels and are indeed precious and important.

I stand as an ally to anyone who is repressed, who is knocked down, insulted, mistreated or denied because of their perceived differences. I will speak up with you, I will be by your side, not in violence but in genuine honest protest and discussion. This is how I was raised and who I am.

I will go with you.

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haircare, latest in beauty, make up, reviews, skincare

Latest in Beauty – Beauty Awards Finalists

Latest in Beauty’s 2015 Beauty Awards finalists feature more than 30 beauty brands but getting your hands on them is tricky as they sell out fast.

You can select your choice of items, 6, 9 or 15 products for a varied price list.

In the end I went for 6 as a lot of the things I’d have liked had sold out super quick. You can also vote for your favourites.

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MUA pro-base prime and conceal

CoLab dry shampoo in Monaco

Popband ‘no dent’ hair tie

Carmex original lip balm

Body Shop Wild Argan Oil for face, hair and body

Burt’s Bees beeswax lip balm

Some of these are things I would buy anyway, I missed out on some great products, but I think it might be better to have some things I will definitely use regularly as opposed to more things that sit on the shelf gathering dust.

What products piqued your interest if you took part in the LiB voting?

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beauty boxes, latest in beauty, make up, reviews, skincare

Latest in Beauty – Get the Gloss

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I’ve been having issues with the LiB website so this took a while to order. Paypal have driving me crackers for the last two months as well. I definitely need a beauty based treat.

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The box is very neatly packed with eight products, including several full size items.

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Salon Science AquaCacteen Hydrasoothe Cooling Spray – Salon Science is a brand I only started hearing about this year. This is a cooling spray, not for your face but for your hair. Full size bottle and it smells quite nice too.

Nails Inc Gel Effect in Regents Place – full size, creamy blue shade (there were two – the other is Downtown – a hot pink, always a surprise as to which you get).

Bourjois Aqua Blush – I’m not a huge fan of liquid blush and out of the three available shades I wound up with a bright pink that really won’t work for me.

Nuxe Huile Prodigieuse OR – plant oils and vitamin E in this sparkly face, skin and hair oil, from French brand Nuxe.

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Philip Kingsley Swim Cap – sun protection and chlorine defender for hair. Mine always goes green in swimming pools – the curse of natural blondes – so this is a handy item.

Aurelia Refine & Polish Miracle Balm – instant exfoliator or enzyme mask. Smells good too!

Elemental Herbology Cell Plumping – applied daily this claims to make your skin plumper and more radiant.

Anne Semonia Eye Express Radiance Ice Cube – store in the freezer, pop on your eyes and it reduces redness, puffiness and the dreaded dark circles.

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beauty boxes, nail polish, reviews

Nailbox – the polish addict’s box

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I regularly check in with the reviews on other blogs and this caught my nail polish addict’s eye.

Oh what a fabulous box for someone who loves nail polish.

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Moyou London nail stamper and scraper set. With this you can apply funky nail art with the stamper and templates. Something I will definitely be having a play with.

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Nail Apothecary Cuticle Eliminator – I am quite lucky in that my cuticles are very small and don’t give me any grief. But I will keep this close to hand in case they do start misbehaving.

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Three nail polishes. Opi, Barry M, China Glaze. Pink, purple, white. They are worth the cost of the box alone!

Really like this box, looking forward to seeing what next month brings.

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instagram, life, ratties

Ratties – 2 became 5!

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Peaches and Custard

You may remember my little ratties – Algernon and Justin. Well now they have three sisters.

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Oh mum, not girls!! We're off!

We adopted three fluffy sisters, who needed to be re-homed ASAP. We’d been discussing getting some girls after having the boys neutered, rats are social creatures and need companionship.

We did rename them – Custard, Peaches and Cream (she’s camera shy) and they’ve been adjusting to each other.

Algernon is quite easy going and likes cuddling up with Peaches, while Justin seems unimpressed and would like them to stop eating ‘his’ food. Greedy chops.

Cream doesn’t like being handled and is a nervy thing, spends most of her time asleep or hiding. Peaches is more gregarious, and likes popping up to say hello. Custard is a bit bitey but I’m training her out of that. Unfortunately I’m not sure she’s completely healthy – she has a funny lump on her belly and makes an odd chuffing noise from time to time so I’ll be popping to the vet next week for a check up.

I keep trying to get a photo of them all together, but apart from Justin the poser, they all scatter when they see my phone!

If you want to see how they’re doing, I post pictures on instagram with the hash tag #fuzzyweirdos

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beauty, body positive, fashion

My two cents: hijabi fashion

I was on Facebook and magazine Volup2 had posted an article about hijabi fashionistas. Of course some idiots in the comments had leapt straight into hate territory (referencing Sharia law, repression of women, being islamophobic etc)

That’s not been my experience, I have plenty of friends and colleagues who are Muslim and incredibly stylish, some of whom cover up more than others.

These women have made choices about their level of coverage, their interpretation of modest dress. Some have gone from merely wearing long sleeves and floor length skirts or trousers to the hijab and more. All by their own choice.

These ladies have scarf collections to die for, beautiful colours, patterns and designer. Just gorgeous. They coordinate their outfits so beautifully too. I wish I had that level of colour combination skill.

Even the ones who choose to wear a burqa over their clothes are often well dressed underneath. It seems like quite a practical garment too. And it’s a personal preference.

All three Abrahamic religions (Judaism, Christianity, Islam) have instructions to dress modestly, but like most religious texts these rules are open to interpretation. If you go to Rome and want to go into a church, your shoulders and knees must be covered, it’s the same in most of Europe and Russia.

Women used to wear hats to church and some still have dress codes. My aunt’s church is quite strict, whereas my mum’s is a lot more relaxed in terms of what you wear on Sunday.

There are similar circumstances in most synagogues, heads must be covered, modest, smart dress is preferred. Some Jewish communities adhere to these rules all the time, others are more relaxed.

I’m sure other religions have dictates about dress, either specifically for worship or for everyday.

So why shouldn’t women who wear a hijab or who cover themselves dress well? Where does it say they can’t enjoy clothes and make up? Yes some countries have strict, enforceable dress codes, but they tend to be in the minority.

These hijabi fashionistas are inspiring younger women who might be worried that wearing the hijab is frumpy or means they have to give up their love of clothes in order to be closer to their faith. They also look amazing. All women should support each other regardless of faith, culture or ethnicity.

If you see someone looking amazing or wearing cute shoes or a fabulous top – tell her. Say ‘I love your shoes’ or ‘you look amazing’, smile, make someone’s day. The world is a cruel, cold place without us pulling each other down or making assumptions without knowing someone first.

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Why this nurse’s daughter has no faith in Jeremy Hunt

Dear Mr Cameron,

I didn’t vote for you, mostly because some of your policies are set to cause terrible damage to the country I live in. None more so than the dismantling of the NHS.

Jeremy Hunt has no medical background and knows absolutely nothing about healthcare. He believes that water than once encountered an onion is medicine. He’s wrong.

The NHS was born in 1948 and I was born in 1986. The hospital where I was born still exists, and needs serious work to modernise it. That same hospital is where my mum, a nurse and midwife, worked and it saved my life a few times.

I was a week late sauntering into the world with my umbilical cord wrapped around my neck, turning slightly blue. That was swiftly removed and I was sent home to grow up.

Aged 10 I stopped breathing, I was rushed to hospital on oxygen – an allergen I’d not encountered before closed my airways. Luckily swift intervention meant I could grow up some more.

Aged 18 I tried to kill myself, the doctor I told at university told me it was a phase and let me go. Aged 28 I tried again, this time I was believed and started therapy at that same hospital.

I have physical issues too – PCOS, a painful growth of cysts on my overies, something I hope your daughters never deal with. An under active thyroid that means whatever I eat I can’t lose weight.  Both are treated by medicine, medicine I don’t pay for because they’re lifelong conditions.

I do however pay my taxes and National Insurance, happily, knowing it keeps the NHS saving lives.

My mum has been a nurse since she was 17. I won’t embarrass her by saying how old she is now, but trust me when I say that’s most of her life. She’s studying for her PhD in nursing at the moment, while working full time and looking after my dad, a diabetic with a chronic heart condition, and my sister who has complex learning and behavioural needs. My mum now has osteoporosis. Probably due to a kidney disease she had as a kid (treated by the NHS).

You want a 24/7 healthcare system, but don’t understand that hospitals, A&Es especially, are already at breaking point. Doctors and nurses work ridiculously long shifts, sleep maybe a few hours, then work again. They have no personal life, no time to socialize or relax.

Fewer and fewer young people want to train for 7 years, graduate with huge debts and all but wall themselves inside a hospital for their adult lives. I can’t imagine why.

Two weeks ago there was a tube strike – doctors cannot strike and are paid less than tube drivers to save lives.

My mum moved from the wards when she became a parent, the hours are incompatible with family life. But as a ward sister, she had risen high in the hospital. She worked at Great Ormond Street, the RNOH, the Aids clinic in Soho in the 80s, the maternity unit at Northwick Park (where I was born) and many others.

She returned to nursing – her capacity for caring is boundless. She now works in North West London as a school nurse – which is much more than just vaccinations. She attends child protection meetings, visits families at home, deals with parents, teaches sexual health in schools, during the H1N1 scare she visited the homes of people with the flu and assessed them, repeatedly putting her own health at risk.

She’s not the only one.

Jeremy Hunt wouldn’t survive five minutes on the front line of the NHS. How would he cope being vomited, bled, shat on by the sick, how about easing the suffering of the dying or helping a woman give birth to an already dead child?

He wouldn’t. I honestly believe that he is a terrible health minister – no experience or actual knowledge, and without those you have an idiot with the belief that water that once met an onion is more able to cure someone than medicine prescribed by an educated, trained, knowledgeable doctor.

I implore you Mr Cameron, to do the right thing, remove Mr Hunt from this post and find someone (maybe an actual healthcare professional) to do the job fairly and justly. The NHS is worth saving, the lives it’s saved and continues to save prove that.

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